Friend

Each and every one of us has friends in our life. They are the people who are always there when ever we need them. The friends that we know it could be from our childhood age until the end of our life or maybe it could be someone that you know along your journey in life. Who ever they are, friends are really important in our life especially when you are a teenager. Friends come and go as they pleas. We don’t have the power to control them, but we have the brains that can be used preserve them. Friends are like our own souls, who share the same body. We need them to live this life. Without them life is empty and meaningless. True friends are those who are always there to share stories in life, our experience, problems. They are always there to motivate us when we are feeling down and to share all the happiness and success in our life. They are the person who we can trust to keep all of our secrets and they are those people who are willing to be a good guider or teacher in our life.

A true friendship should be built with a strong foundation to ensure that it’s strong enough to face the obstacle in life. Trust, tolerance, sincerity, and understanding are some of the ingredients to build a strong friendship in our life. Friendship should be nurtured with good care to ensure a good impact in our life. Friendship that is built in the right way could bring us many benefits that can make your life better. Friendship also can be the cause of disasters in our life. Even a good person could turn into bad if he or she can’t manage his own friendship. In life friends are the place where we go to find answers when we are facing problems or question in life. They are like a teacher to us. But not every person could be a good friend. There are some people out there who love to help and give relevant answer as friends and help his friends to achieve success in life, but there are also some “friends” who love to see his friend’s having disasters in his life. Those are the people who do not deserve to have friends in life.

In life did you ever ask your self why do we are easily influenced by our friends? The answer must be no. teenagers are the person who is easily influenced by their friends, but why? Is there any adult trying to advise the wrong things that they are doing? Most of the teenagers who involved in many social problems such as drugs abuse, pre-marital sex and smoking usually are facing problems at home. Teenagers that are facing problems at home such as their parents being divorced and maybe their parents are neglecting them are those who is easily influenced by negative things that their friends are doing. When both their parents are ignoring them, there are no other adult who is going to advise them about their action. This situation will make the teenagers to be dared enough to do all the negative activities. Nowadays we can see many teenagers are brave enough to smoke at public places without feeling scared of the law and the police. If we read the news paper recently, there a lot of stories about young teenagers being caught doing pre-marital sex at hotel or motel or even worst in bushes or any place where they will have the chance to have sex.

Regarding this matter who should be blamed? Is it the parents? Or is it the community? Or is it your friends? Each and every one of them is responsible, but most of the blame will go to Friends and Parents. Parents and friends they are the person that is supposed to be there to advise and guide you to be a better person. Parents as an adult should never neglect their responsibilities to educate their children in becoming a good person. They should always be concerned about what is happening to their children rather then just sit back and wait until there is a complaint about their child. If they have the thought to do that, then the future of their children will never be a success. If their children is involved in such a social problems then it’s already too late to change them. They will only rebel upon what you are saying and doing.

In detrmining who is wrong in this situation, actually friends are the one should be pointed. This is because as friend you should never teach your friends to do all the bad things that will mar your friend life and future. Usually a friend is like a role model in his pal life. As a role model, you are supposed to show a good example so that both your friend and you will benefits it in life. That’s why it is advisable for us to choose a good person as friends in our life so that we could get benefits from the friendship that is build.

In friendship actually there should not be any ranks. We should make friends with people in our life. Ashuman beings who have hearts and brain we can think what is the best for us. It’s not that we can’t be friends with people that have bad social status, yes we can be friends with them. But we must remember that we can’t easily be influenced by them. All the good things that they have you should take as a guide for you to build a better life and what is wrong that they are doing, you should advise them to change. Explain to them what can changes do in life. What can they be if they become a decent person. This way both of you will get the benefits from your friendship. Friends and friendships can bring thousand meanings in our life. They can change a bad person to good and it also can make bad out of good. We need to manage our friendship very well. Think before we do something and don’t just simply follow your emotion.

This article was written to someone who

was one a friend to me...

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